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      Children Attendants Roles



      Flower Girl
      The flower girl is usually an extra to your bridesmaids, and traditionally walks in front of the bride on the way down the aisle at the start of the ceremony. As her name suggests, she carries a flower girl basket and scatters rose petals on the ground for you to walk through. However, many facilities/churches do not permit this due to the real possibility of someone slipping on dropped petals, flower girls now often carry a basket of posies. Or instead she can carry a basket of confetti or petals during the ceremony, and then distribute it outside at the end of the service.A flower girl is usually a young child, often dressed in a more youthful version of the bridesmaids’ and many times even wearing a flower girl veil.
      Having young children in the wedding party is a popular idea that can delight the guests. However, if your flower girl and ring bearer are very young then it may be wise to allow her to make her entrance with you and then sit with her parents during the ceremony and rejoin you afterwards for the recessional line.

      Ring Bearer
      The role of the ring bearer is quite simple. He/she carries the ring or rings, often on a ring bearer pillow, to be presented during the ceremony. Usually walks with the flower girl down the aisle. The ring bearer is usually a child and it is a perfect role to bestow on your own child/children, to directly involve them in your ceremony. He/she can be dressed to match your other attendants or have a completely individual outfit to make them stand out. Like a satin or velvet suit if a boy, if a girl a pretty dress similarly in colors coordinating with bridesmaids gowns.

      Children of a previous marriage
      In remarriage including the children is a must so they won’t feel left out of their parents lives. There are many other tasks that may be assumed by special children in the ceremony. A young son may escort his mother down the aisle. A child may say a prayer or do a reading during the ceremony. Young men can certainly fill the role of seating ushers at the ceremony. A child who is musically talented child may be asked to play or sing. A child may be put in charge of the guest book at the reception. Children of either sex might be unity candle lighters for the ceremony. As you can see there are a number of tasks those children of various ages may be involved with for a wedding.


      When to Order Wedding Invitations


      A few words of advise when shopping for Professionally Printed Wedding Invitations. When should I order my wedding invitations?
      Even though you may receive your order in about a week you should order anywhere from 3 to 6 months prior to the event.
      Be sure to verify the wedding ceremony site & reception site as well as the dates and times before you have the invitations printed!

      Why order more wedding invitations then you need! It seems like I should be able to buy 50 wedding invitations for ½ the price of 100 Right? Wrong! Your raised printed invitations and enclosures items start with the printer doing a "set-up". The printer will need to do this whether you are ordering 25 invitations or 1000. So…the person who orders 25 invitations will be paying more per invitation than the person who orders 1000. It’s best to order 25 to 50 more with the original order. If you place an order for 25 additional later the setup charge will apply again and what does that mean? Additional $’s to you.


      Print you Own Invitations and Save


      Invitations can be quite expensive for your bridal shower, rehearsal dinners, weddings, or just any occasion. By simply using your computer and purchasing a make your own invitation stationary kits you can save a substantial amount of money in the process. Even those who do not consider themselves very handy can easily put together their own unique invitations using stock paper and the instructions on Masterpiece Studios printing tips page.

      Begin by choosing a heavy stock printable invitation paper with a distinctive color textures or print. The paper should compliment the theme and colors of the occasion you our using it for. Be sure the weight of the paper is at least 65 LB weight or more because then you need not worry if it will feed through your printer. You may wish to glue on a small ribbon bow, tiny silk flower, add a pretty sticker, or perhaps wrap a contrasting paper or silk ribbon band around the invitation. Fasten the papers together at the top. Using a small punch hole, make two holes through both papers near the top. Tie the paper together using thin silk ribbons, raffia, small tassels or decorative metal fasteners.


      Affordable Wedding Reception Ideas



      When the big day is scheduled and your family and friends come up with dozens of wedding reception ideas, remember this is suppose to be the once in a lifetime celebration for the bride and groom. The reception needs to be linked to the marriage ceremony and they both should reflect the vision of the bride especially.
      If you and other family members are busy you may have to hire a bridal consultant. If you do chose to hire a consultant make sure you detail a budget and have a set plan in writing before you hire. Also before you hire a consultant make sure you ask friends for recommendations or ask florist, caterers, photographers or the Association of Bridal Consultants. That brings up the another important consideration the budget. The biggest part of the budget hinges upon how many people will attend. The couple should sit down together and figure out your priorities. A smaller attendance figure may allow for a full dinner. While a big open invitation reception may force you to serve finger food or buffet only. If you decide not serve dinner be sure to schedule the event early enough in the afternoon so it can conclude by dinner time and people can go out for dinner on their own.
      One big expense is the tradition of an open bar. There are ways to getaway from this without offending anyone. If full dinner option has been selected then serve wine, beer and champagne through dinner, but change from open bar for hard drinks to host bar as soon as the champagne toast is complete right before dinner.
      Decorating your reception can be a lot of fun especially if there is a lot of help available. Rented halls present the greatest challenge to tastefully carry a theme from the wedding ceremony. We suggest you plan for one large focal point to bring a tasteful look to the reception hall. Perhaps get a rented gazebo decorated with tulle and bows and then add a touch of color to the room with colored table linens and simple centerpieces. If the reception is held at a hotel and they cater the food and drinks they will probably also decorate the tables and entrance. An outdoor reception just needs tables with table decorations and a big tent. Decide on what your theme is going to be by interests, careers, favorite periods in history, and the season of the year. Here are a few basics wedding reception ideas for what may need decorating whether you do it yourself or not.
      The entrance: Flower garlands for the doorway with floral arrangements on columns or a arch.
      Gift Table: Place some framed pictures of the bride and groom along with wedding favors, a gift box and perhaps some candies or rose petals.
      Tables and Centerpieces: Reception tables should each have a decoration of some kind. A glass bowl of colored water with floating candles and rose petals is nice. Fill a pot or vase with flowers and ribbons. Coasters will add a touch of class and also make a keepsake gift that the wedding guests will remember.Chairs: You can tie a bow of tulle or gauze to the back in the wedding theme colors.
      Buffet Table: Cover the table with a skirt that goes to the floor and raise a platform with books or solid boxes covered with a solid color cloth under each platter of food and scatter flower heads or rose petals around.
      Cake Table and Cake: Start out with a cake topper. The bride and groom figurines are traditional a have been most popular for many years. Personalized, whimsical cake ornaments perhaps with the couple’s hobbies or how they meet are a popular trend. Skirt the table and place some candles and a vase of flowers for an elegant touch. A personalized wedding reception cake knife and server will help set off the cake table and provide you with a keepsake too.
      Floors: If you decide to have an outside wedding under a tent you may want to look into renting a floor for reception dancing. That brings up another very important thing that you must think about music.
      Music: You may want to set up some kind of platform for your musicians or disc jockey and decorate it for your theme think about this when renting a hall, hotel, etc. Start looking for musicians or today many couples hires a disc jockey as soon as the wedding date is set. Realize that some musicians or disc jockeys may be booked a year in advance. Get referrals listen to the musicians or disc jockeys perform and discuss your taste for dance music.
      Walls: Sometimes definitely the biggest challenge in a dull room use mixed flower hanging baskets to set the mood and try hanging lengths of contrasting colors of tulle or gauze gathered with a bow at the top.
      These are just a few basic wedding reception ideas to perhaps stimulate your imagination.

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